Make the Decisions in Your Own Life
You probably might have heard that it is your decision that makes your judgment come out from the best of the available options. While this statement is true to a great extent, we often fell into a dilemma of deciding the best of the options. Possibly, the only reason that concretes the statement is dependent upon the influx of the advice and suggestions. We are a social animal, hence, it is only natural to assume a number of relations we have through the entirety of our life. This relation is based upon our social understanding and the connection with friends and families. We, per say, believe that having a good lot of companions can have a great impact in our daily life. Not only in terms of relationship, but also in terms of advice and suggestions. So the question arises as to how much do you allow advice to cloud your judgment in the life?
An Example
Let us assume that you are suffering from a disorder, not an immediate one. The most common notion would be to visit the doctor and determine the severity and lethality. Sometimes, if the condition can be cured over time or require immediate surgery for faster results, the doctor often lets you make the final choice. Herein, comes loads of advice from your friends and families. You will be presented with lots of suggestions, each with their own explanations. So do you hear their advice and follow up accordingly or you only listen to their suggestions and make a final decision based on your instincts?
Sort out the Good and the Bad
Ways Your Brain Stops You From Making Great Decisions
Perhaps, it is equally important to determine the aspects of the advice from any person. They may not think ill of you, but their lack of knowledge or ignorance may affect your decision making. The important thing is to sort out the good advice from the bad ones. Not all suggestions are golden and beneficial, it is very important to understand the outcomes and ramifications of any decision. It is a good thing to ask others for the advice, but keep in mind that whatever decision you make, will bestow the outcome on you and not others. Choosing the right and beneficial advice is the framework for your success and better results.
Be the Final Decision Maker
The proverb ‘The Man is a Maker of His Own Happiness’ often comes into mind, when understanding the focal decision making in the life. Whether it is a matter of financial needs or any general needs, you need to be sure that you are the boss of the final outcome. Don’t let other determine the outcome of your approach, instead, take the reins in your hand and be your own boss. No matter the outcome, whether good or bad, will never haunt your decision. If you allow someone else’s advice to lead, and should anything goes wrong, you will curse that person for the entire life, even if their intentions aren’t wrong. You should be the King of your own mind and be the one to put a nail in the coffin.
Life is very complex for every one of us. Nobody lives an easygoing life. There are often times, where decision making becomes extremely important, irrespective of the issues. Seeking advice is an ideal option to understand the possibilities, but always be the final decision maker to rule your judgment.
