A clichéd saying we all willingly believe in, because the belief in it is worth it. Change is what drives life ahead. Without changes, real and lasting ones, we are humdrum beings stuck in a rut. So when I was asked to write on real and lasting changes, I wondered. The first question that needs to be answered in what one would want to change. Clearly things which are not working out currently too well for us and require a push, a pull, and some work.
These things have to be from parts of our life which mean something to us, changes which will ultimately matter and make a difference to the whole of sixty-seventy years that we will live. So when we speak of how does one create real and lasting changes, let us divide life into those majorly those bits and parts of our life that matter: studies, career, relationships (family, friends and lovers) and health. These are majorly the major concerns of one’s life. Written not in hierarchal, chronological or in fact any order at all. All these occupy supreme importance in our life at different times, health being (hopefully) a constant. Here are five pointers to things/attitudes that will matter in all these and more areas of your life, these are pointers that will lead to a change.