When you think of success who do you think about? The first thing that comes to mind to me is someone sailing on a yacht on the New England coastline, looking out on to the ocean from the bow with your close friends. Though that's not my true idea of success, it's still my mentally constructed view of success.
And, I'm not even the type of person who would enjoy having that type of lifestyle, yet that idea of someone sailing is a picture of ultimate success to me. What that tells me is that success is not an actual tangible place. Success is an idea that we can create, and that idea may be feasible or it may be far from your reach.