A discovery from most great achievers shows that their least productive times in life were the ones in which they were uncertain and apprehensive of themselves. Looks may be deceptive that’s why it is absolutely impractical trying to predict or weigh people by it. Judging by physical appearance, most people around us appear quite self-assured, coordinated, artless, collected, refined or self-controlled.
Honestly, that’s really expected but the actual situation is quite disappointing, paralleling the realities of fear razing most people internally. How you may ask? I have come to discover that every man has got what I call the ‘inside-fear’. And just like someone observed, ‘in every man there is a frightened child not minding his appearance’. This fear is capable of fashioning one positively or negatively depending on one’s choice.
One of the negatives is lack of confidence. Most people are not self-confident. Some people can’t even speak up in front of others, while other people are totally locked up within themselves, and large number of others are not bold enough to interact for fear of what others may think or say of them. Why? Because they are so unsure of themselves. But to be sure of yourself on a definite matter is to be confident. Self-confidence is a champ’s charm and makes the difference between success people.