Definitions of Pure Love Everyone Must Know
People say love is pure, painful, sweet and dreadful. The truth is love is a basic necessity in everyone’s life. Everyone needs to be loved to live a proper and healthy life. Love has various definitions. Ask someone and they will give you their own definition of love. Love is a variety of feelings, state, emotions and attitude. To express the word love different words are used in different languages.
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For some love is more than just being interested physically in someone, for others it’s an emotional attachment. Love is more of a feeling that a person feels for another person. People often confuse love and lust. Love means to be deeply committed and connected to someone or something. The basic meaning of love is to feel more than liking towards someone. It is a bond that two people share.
There are a few things you need to avoid when building a new relationship like being too demanding. Don’t be demanding and dominating at the start of your relationship. This is a mistake people do. They always try to seek attention from the partner. That is not possible. You need to understand that your partner had a life before you entered. You cannot ask them to give it up, the moment you entered. They have their priorities. Your partner cannot give you attention 24x7. Understand it, respect it. Don’t expect them to change their schedule completely for you.
1. Never Rush into Relationship
Give yourself and your partner little time. Take things slow. Know their likes and dislikes. Analyze that would you be willing to share a common bond in the following years. Every person has some habits that would be annoying to you. Think would you be still sharing the same bond when you see the dark side of a person. (Maintain Healthy Relationships)
2. Do Not be Jealous
There is no room for jealousy and possessiveness in true love. Being protective is a part of a relationship, but there should be a healthy understanding. Being too much involved can make the other person feel suffocated in the relationship. They may be having an ex with whom they share an understanding as a friend, but it didn’t work out when they were dating. That is the reason they moved on and now are with you.
3. Give yourself a Chance
Just because you both had a conflict in opinion about something doesn’t mean things won’t work out. Give yourself a chance. Your perception and your partner’s perception may differ.
4. Stop Expecting
Stop expecting doesn’t mean give up on you. But do not expect your partner to do things exactly what you thought of them doing. It is not right. Your expectations in your relationship may be different from what your partner’s expectation of you is. Respect the fact that they are a little different from you. The more you try to change a person and try to make them act according to you, the less attached they will be with you.
5. Maintain Privacy
With social media readily available to share all your problems and people ready to jump to your rescue, we tend to discuss issues over the internet than in person. Never do that. Maintain privacy in your relationship. Talk out the issues with your partner. Don’t use the platform of social media to complain about something that is wrong between you two. A little privacy to your relationship is required.
6. Avoid Misunderstandings
It is easy to have a misunderstanding when you have a conflict of opinion. Try to avoid it. Give a chance to let your partner put forward their point of view. If they are wrong try talking to them why you do think are they wrong. Don’t jump to conclusions and create a drama. This is very unhealthy to your relationship. ( Love Within is the Love Without )
Ultimately love is accepting the person for who they are. It is not encouraging them to commit a sin if they are happy doing it but helping them improve in every way possible. Encouraging your partner to achieve their dream and respecting each other is true love. True love is a divine feeling that gives a feeling of being complete.
It is worth fighting and taking efforts for each other. Love is being there for each other through the thick and thin. True love need not mean spending the rest of the life together but wishing happiness for the person even if it means to stay apart. Love cannot be defined in words but can be expressed through actions. Love is being someone’s strength and love can be found in small gestures like asking someone if they had their food and asking them to take care of themselves. (Ways to Love Growing Older)