A preaching since young age always been throbbing at the back of our mind saying “Don’t be self-centered, always help others”! We are often torn between the choices pf doing something for self and focusing on the need of others. And nearly on 99% occasions, we surrender to the implanted preaching and ignore self.
Did you ever feel crestfallen in spite of doing good to others or by giving your undivided attention while others kept whining? Did you ever try to find reasons behind your despondency?
You encountered sorrow because you neglected yourself. London-based life coach and writer, Susanna Halonen, MAPP, says “Love yourself before you lover others”. Being self-centered is a misunderstood term. In the capacity of ‘live for others’, self-centred means grooming self for greater good. If you truly want to make this world a beautiful place, learn to be a little self-centered for following five reasons: