Ten Important Little Things to Think About
“The world as we have created it is a process of our thinking. It cannot be changed without changing our thinking.” - Albert Einstein
Many a times in life, we are at crossroads which set us thinking. Are we moving in the right direction? The kind of questions you ask yourself determines the kind of life you lead. One may not find immediate answers but that doesn't mean you won't find them ever. Avoid backward-looking questions like, "Why is life always unfair towards me?".
Ask yourselves questions which are empowering. Thought-provoking questions put you on the path in the right direction leading to a better life.
1. Who are You?
It's good to self- reflect and accept who you are. Good and bad always co-exist. It helps to resolve inner conflict and gain clarity to your future actions. It takes courage to know and accept oneself. Never let others define who you are. Defeats and challenges should make you stronger but never let them baffle you. They are your stepping stones to success.
2. What are the Most Important Things in Your Life?
"Happiness is the meaning and purpose of life. The whole aim and end of human existence." - Aristotle.
Happiness is the most important thing in life, everything else like Family, friends, health, career and wealth are just means to achieve true happiness. Invest in your relationships. Take care of your health. Follow your passion and do what you love the most. Manage your wealth wisely. Too many material possessions may complicate our lives.
3. What are the Biggest Lessons You have Learnt in Your Life so far?
Now is all that matters. Relationships need nurturing. A vulnerability is good if practised with safe and loving people. It strengthens and heals you emotionally. Travel broadens and enlightens your mind. It's worth saving for. You cannot control others. We cannot make people act and think like us. Embrace the uniqueness and differences of the people in your life.
4.What is Your Biggest Fear?
Do not let the fears of others boggle you down and stop you from confronting challenging situations. Those who run towards what scares them are the ones who get stronger.
5. Is There Anything that is Holding You Back from Achieving Your Goals in Life?
What is holding you back from doing what you are truly good at doing? Make your failures learning experiences. It may not take you to the destination you were heading for but it will certainly lead you to a place with more than what you have now.
6. Are You Being Yourself?
Never let others define you. You feel good and relaxed when you are being true to yourself. It's easier when you dont have to pretend and try to impress others. Free yourself from the fear of being judged by others. Mustering up courage to be your true self makes you more confident and helps you to achieve inner peace.
7. How can You Change Someone's Life for Better?
Giving is the most immaculate feeling one could ever experience in this world. It cleanses your inner being. A smile that comes straight from the heart is a beautiful gift. Be a good listener and show him or her that you truly care. Give others your trust, love and honesty. Remember to give unconditionally.
8. If You were to Die Tomorrow What will be Your Biggest Regret?
The answer to this question by most people who were facing death is that their biggest regrets in life are not the things they did, but rather those they never did. Go ahead and pursue your dreams so that you can face death without any regrets.
9. How do We Bring Back Magic and Joy in Our Lives as We Age?
Having a positive attitude towards life is the secret to aging happily. Regrets are toxic, let go of them. As you age, being socially engaged is vital to staying both mentally and physically healthy. Remind yourself that there is life in abundance even when you grow old. Shift your attitude to "hat can i do" to "what can i enjoy.
10. How can You Make Your Life More Meaningful Starting from Today?
Pursue your dreams passionately. Be compassionate. Know yourself and know what is important.
“Life is without meaning. You bring the meaning to it.” - Joseph Campbell