Stop Punishing Yourself - 30 Things To Do
Although life isnt fair, it does have its charms provided one sticks to some of the most resilient strategies to enjoy the hidden possibilities and the opportunities it has to offer. Although life isn't fair, it does have its charms provided one sticks to some of the most resilient strategies to enjoy the hidden possibilities and the opportunities it has to offer.
1. Stop Being a Pretentious Schmuck
Things aren't right and you aren't Superman either.
2. Stop Blaming
No one is responsible for your fall. Not even you. Get up and get it right.
3. Quit Being 'Everything'
Multi-tasking is good but only for robots; unfortunately not for you.
4. Don’t Hide Your Problems
No one is perfect. One must conquer his/her fears to face the punch thrown at them. It doesn't matter if you fall, what matters is how quickly you get up and fight again. That’s the sole purpose of life - get up and get going.
5. Stop Lying to Yourself
You can't stop lying to others; however, least you can do is to stop lying to yourself. Prior to taking chances, it is but essential to be det honest and true to oneself.
6. Quit Living Someone Else's Life
Everyone is unique is his or her own ways. Emulating other’s life and lifestyle is very common. The day you start living 'your' life is the day you are born.
7. Let Go Off The Past
You can’t turn the page of a book if you are pondering over the last page again and again. Move on. There is no point holding on to what had already transpired.
8. Make Mistakes
To err is human. Doing something and not getting it right is by far more appreciated than doing absolutely nothing.
9. Stop Criticizing Yourself
Whatever you may have done, stop berating yourself. After all, it’s these mistakes that make us who we are, what we want and how we go about it.
10. Stop Searching Happiness
All great things in life are free - loyalty, honor, justice, love, freedom and peace. Happiness is within you and not outside.
11. Stop Being Discontented
If you don’t love yourself, don’t blame other for not loving you. It’s you alone who's got to take care, love and respect yourself.
12. Say 'Goodbye' to Negativity
Before you blame your stars, it’s advisable to flush negative people out of your life. Don’t let anyone suck the happiness out of you.
13. Pull Yourself From Blind Faith
Trust is an expensive trait; don’t expect it from cheap people. Do not build blind trust on others, no matter how close they are.
14. Stop Kicking the Opportunity
If you feel you are not ready; truth is that you never will. Opportunity is what makes us grow from inside out, beyond our imagination at the first place.
15. Don’t Jump Into Any Conclusions
There are three sides to every story; yours, theirs and the truth. Jumping to conclusions ruins everything.
16. Stop Pretending
Let go off anything that doesn't serve you, love you are makes you who you are.
17. Stop Being Jealous
Jealously won’t affect anyone else except you.
18. Stop Saying 'No'
Just because past didn't work out the way it should be, it no way determines the new relationships or opportunities.
19. Quit Competing
Though being competitive is good, excess of it can take some heavy toll on you. Compete with yourself first. Others can wait.
20. Stop Being Lazy
Get active and get a life. A part of it, as a matter of fact, is already lost.
21. Quit Holding Grudges
The only thing that's holding you back are the grudges – let them go.
22. Stop Being 'Sorry'
You are way over it; don’t apologize to yourself if it didn't work out for you.
23. Forgive Yourself
Better than all, forgive yourself and start afresh. There is more to life than holding on to something that’s not yours.
24. Stop Explaining
You don’t owe anyone anything - stop explaining.
25. Stop Overlooking Small Stuff
The beauty of small things is what really matters.
26. Stop Comparing
Appreciate uniqueness and let go off comparisons
27. Stop Being 'Monotonous'
Take a break, run away from the usual schedule. You'll love it.
28. Stop Manipulating
Let the things be as they are.
29. Stop Being Ungrateful
Be grateful to everything - despair, loss, etc. Things will change dramatically.
30. Stop 'Worrying'
Fear of the unknown, breadth of the fool. Quit it and let free.
Without exception, we tend to get attracted to these. Reflect a bit on the list and see how dramatically life changes.