Confidence isn’t something everyone just naturally has. It comes easier to some people than others but in general, it’s something you have to work for and build upon over time. Creating confidence is difficult because it can feel like you’re starting scratch. It almost feels like you need confidence to build confidence.
Often, the more you focus on trying to become confident, the less confident you get. When working on building confidence you need to take a step back and shift your focus to finding important life skills and habits that create confidence for you. Instead of just trying to tell yourself to be confident, build up habits in your life that organically create confidence in you.
Focus on the development and discipline that goes into these habits and with time, natural confidence will come. This isn’t fabricated confidence, this isn’t “fake it ‘til you make it,” confidence. This is the real stuff. Here are 4 habits you can implement into your life that create authentic confidence: