In almost all the families, it is a common thing to ask money or seek help from one another to lead a decent life. The most important thing you have to keep in mind is that money spoils relationship. These people, perhaps, think that you earn a lot or you own a bungalow or an expensive car.
They don't see the increasing number of credit cards that you own and the bills which come along with them. People may have different needs and to tend to each and everybody's needs is very difficult. Moreover, money and friendship rarely go hand in hand.
There may be occasions when we can't avoid lending money to our relatives. Before lending, we have to keep in mind certain things. They are: