9 Tips On How To Manage The Fear Of Not Making It

Some people let the fear of failure interfere with their success. This can lead to unnecessary stress and anxiety and can prevent a person from being successful. The key is to know how to get past the rejection without letting your fears get the best of you. (Overcome Fear of Failure)

Here are nine suggestions on how to manage this fear of not getting what we always want.

1. Can’t Always Be Successful

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Lessons About Failures

You will experience some rejection in your life. Everyone who has looked for a job or went out on a date have been turned down and yet things have worked out over time.  We can’t always get what we want but realizing that rejection is a part of life will put things in better perspective.

2. Learn To Relax

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Take a deep breath and try to find something that will help you to relax.  Exercise, listening to music, or reading can help get your mind off of your stressful situation. Doing an activity that will reduce your anxieties is a great way to think clearly and to be more productive. (Positive Thinking To A Healthy Mind)

3. Don’t Ever Quit

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The key to success is to keep on trying and not to give up. It takes a lot of persistence to be successful. There are times that you will not accomplish something in the first few tries. Having a lot of patience and being persistence is required if you want to accomplish anything in life. (Increase Your Patience)

4. Take Things Slowly

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Some people like to rush through thinks because they don’t have time with their busy schedules. Sometimes a person must take one step at a time to be successful at a certain task. Putting in the extra time and effort can go a long way in being successful at what you do. (Time Management Techniques)

5. Pace Yourself

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It is important that you pace yourself  so you don’t get  burned out and make more mistakes. A person can only do so much in a given time period. Stay organized and do not try to do all of your tasks all at once. This will help you to manage your fear of not making it and get you to focus on the task at hand.

6. Stop Worrying

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Worrying accomplishes nothing on your way to success. The important thing is to focus on what you are doing today instead of what may happen at the end of the week. Focus on one day at a time and don’t get into the habit of trying to predict what may or may not happen down the road. (Enemy Behind Your success)

7. Always Do Your Best

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All of us has to make decisions regarding our careers and personal life on a daily basis. The key is to remember that not all decisions are life and death.  If you do something that isn’t correct, then the next step is to educate yourself on your mistakes and go from there. Evaluating your situation can save you a lot of time and energy. The important part is not get so worked up that you do not know what to do. (Work with Integrity)

8. Be Flexible

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Some people are so rigid that they get upset as soon as something goes wrong.  It is important to be flexible and open minded when you try to accomplish anything. When unexpected things happen, learn how to deal with them immediately instead of making excuses. Go with the flow and things will work to your advantage. (Stop Excuses)

9. Seek Some Assistance

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New Presprective through Failure

A person should talk to somebody in the counseling field if their fear of not making becomes a factor in ones’ life. Some people get so upset about what may happen that they end up making more mistakes. Many counselors can provide information on how to relax and to make sure your fears don’t overwhelm you. (Gain Confidence From Failure)

ByStan Popovich

Stan Popovich is the author of “A Layman’s Guide to Managing Fear Using Psychology, Christianity and Non Resistant Methods” – an easy to read book that presents a general overview of techniques that are effective in managing persistent fears and anxieties. Stan’s book has over 400 book reviews.

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